Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Why Kamp Plus One?

Welcome to Kamp Plus One, a link between you and our journey to finding our child. We started our journey long before either of us ever met each other, although we see that this is the journey God laid out since the very beginning. Since I was a little girl, I have wanted to have a family including adopted children. Bryan was a babysitter for his adopted cousins from South Korea whom he adores. When I was 18 years old, my doctor was looking at my knees as I tore my cartilage when she discovered what later would be diagnosed a ovarian cancer. The tumor was taken care of with surgery and while the doctors were optimistic at the time, I would find out that there was a lot of scarring that could present difficulties in conceiving naturally. When Bryan and I met, we discussed this possibility and decided that God has placed so many wonderful children on this earth, that we would want to adopt some of them. We prayed about it and in November of 2010, we started talking about looking into the process and speaking with friends and family about international adoption. Unbeknownst to us, we were already pregnant! Right after the new year, I started feeling sick. A visit to the doctor would reveal that we were having a miscarriage. While it was very difficult, it gave us hope that we might be able to conceive. During the struggle, we realized that all life is a true and beautiful miracle. We took to our knees before God and with the support of Luke and Ashley Cheatham, and family, we grieved the loss of our pregnancy but we also asked God what was His plan for our future. A few months later, during a church service, Bryan leaned over to me to show me something that I had already circled in my bulletin, a discussion panel on adoption. We prayed before going in that God would lead us and help answer some of the questions still lingering in our minds. He answered them all as we sat and listened to both the hardships of being adopted and the joys of being part of a forever family. We were thrilled! We continued to pray and have others pray with us. Finally, Bryan's Aunt Jan went to the Orphan Summit 2011 in Tennessee where she gathered as many resources for us as any one human could. She sent us the contacts of a couple who happen to go to our church and lead an adoption group. We met with this terrific couple and asked some questions specific to Texas and their experience. This conversation was the last green light God gave us to start the process. We chose Bethany Christian Services to help us with our Ethiopian adoption of a boy or girl under the age of 3. Here we are, the first part of the application is in and the mounds of completed paperwork grow by the day. We know this will be a long process but it is our hope that you will pray for us and pray for protection over our child while we keep you updated with developments. Please feel free to comment, call, email, pray and know that we thank you for your part in this journey!

6 comments:

  1. This is great! What an inspiration and support for others doing the same thing. You will love looking back on the events and how you felt about them. So excited to meet your future baby!!! We are so proud of you two!!!

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  2. Oh Megan! What a journey the Lord has chosen for you two to walk! What a joy to know He will guide you each step of the way. We will be praying for you and your hubby and the road that awaits. Seek first His kingdom...so much love and hugs to you.

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  3. It is so obvious that God has blessed the two of you with His incredible gift of loving!! We see it between the two of you and are so excited to see it with the grandchildren that you will bring into our families!!

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  4. blessings as you begin this journey! I've book marked your blog; can't wait for updates!

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  5. "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you a hope and a future." Jer 29:11

    I saw on CBS news the other night that many Somolian women and children were fleeing to neighboring countries (Ethiopia) to escape the famine. Just think...perhaps one of those children might soon be in your arms! Our prayers are with you both through this adventure!

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  6. Lydia Singer CarrickAugust 28, 2011 at 4:41 PM

    Megan, I don't know if you remember me but we spent a couple German classes & Interim together in Germany. Your saved my butt so many times when I was "lost in translation!" I just saw your post on your facebook wall. I think that is awesome that you guys want to adopt! I grew up in Nigeria, so I think it is even cooler that you guys want an African kid! - Lydia Singer (now Carrick)

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